I can't imagine anyone would be insulted. Surprised, perhaps, if they don't know you particularly well, but not insulted. The same way I don't expect my kosher-keeping friends to serve a cheeseburger, I don't expect you to serve meat. On alcohol, I know some less socially adept people who feel like they need alcohol to be comfortable being social/sociable. I don't really think this means it is your problem or that you should serve alcohol. You might try looking for suggestions on one of the wedding chat boards like weddingchannel.com. I found some useful advice there when I was planning our wedding. (There are lots of totally-obsessed bride-zillas as well, but their comments are easy enough to filter out of your brain.)
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Date: 2006-06-26 08:43 pm (UTC)On alcohol, I know some less socially adept people who feel like they need alcohol to be comfortable being social/sociable. I don't really think this means it is your problem or that you should serve alcohol. You might try looking for suggestions on one of the wedding chat boards like weddingchannel.com. I found some useful advice there when I was planning our wedding. (There are lots of totally-obsessed bride-zillas as well, but their comments are easy enough to filter out of your brain.)